The path to Tranquility (spring)
45. Build a true home for the soul
Everyone longs for a home that truly belongs to them. Whether we pursue career success, explore the wonders of the world, or simply yearn for a simple yet fulfilling life, we all seek a peaceful place we can call "home." However, in the pursuit of external goals, we often overlook true freedom and happiness and forget how this "home" is formed.
The essence of "home" is not only a place for physical rest, but also a sanctuary for the soul. Only in such a space can we fully belong to the present moment and experience a profound sense of belonging and security.
"Home" isn't a static concept; it evolves as we grow, our experiences change, and our values shift. When we're young, "home" might be a bustling place for living, a fertile ground for dreams. In middle age, "home" might become a quiet, comfortable haven, or perhaps a training ground for physical and mental rehabilitation. In old age, "home" becomes a place filled with memories and warmth, a gathering place for life's stories.
For example, a young art enthusiast might begin his artistic career in a simple house, creating his own "home" with brushes and paint. This small space is the starting point of his dreams and passion. As his career develops, he moves into a spacious studio, integrating "home" into his creative environment, forging it into a temple of inspiration and art. In his later years, he may return to the countryside, enjoying the tranquility of a farmhouse, surrounded by nature, reflecting on his life's achievements, and ultimately finding his true "home."
We may have lived in many places, but not every place can be called "home." Without a spiritual connection, a house is just an empty shell, a place to hide from the elements, like an animal's lair. Only in moments of emotional resonance can we truly feel the warmth of home. Imagine a cold winter night, everyone gathered around the fire, sharing stories, the aroma of roasting chestnuts filling the air. In that moment, joy wells up from the bottom of your heart, and the cold house instantly becomes "home."
Whether it's a cup of hot tea, a laugh, or a deep conversation, these small moments can help the soul feel present and find a true "home." To establish a true "home," we must first observe our own body and mind and cultivate a deep understanding of ourselves. Creative forms like music, art, and writing serve as bridges to our inner worlds, helping us to outline the blueprint of our ideal home.
A music lover might create a music corner in their house to showcase their favorite instruments and records. Playing or listening here nourishes their soul, making this corner a unique "home." For others, their dream "home" might be a bright space with floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking a lush garden, paintings on the walls, bookshelves filled with books, and a piano in the living room ready to play tunes at any time.
This sense of "home" must be ingrained in our consciousness. Sometimes we need a quiet corner to spark creativity, and sometimes we need an area for exercise to de-stress. Only by increasing our awareness of our inner needs can we create a space that truly satisfies our souls—a true "home."
A true "home" transcends personal space and extends to the community. A loving and supportive group brings a sense of belonging, security, and the warmth of home. For example, members of a volunteer group may not be related by blood, but they support each other through shared ideals and contribute to society. Their unity makes the group a "home." In a true home, we can speak freely, learn from each other, and grow together. The power of love and support allows us to no longer feel alone in facing life's challenges.
A true "home" is also a place of spiritual healing. In an environment filled with love and support, we can let go of our guard, release stress, and regain inner peace. When someone who has suffered setbacks returns to such a "home," the comfort of family and friends is like a warm embrace, allowing them to gradually heal their wounds and regain confidence and motivation.
It takes two loving partners to build a true "home." Without a spiritual mirror, it's difficult to see our needs clearly. We may continue to yearn for distant places and search far and wide, but we can never truly begin to build this "home." With a loving partner, we can find a peaceful place. Wherever we are, we appreciate the local life and environment and strive to create a shared sense of belonging.
However, only by learning to love oneself can one love others and the world. Even elderly people living alone, without a partner or children, can find joy in life through gardening, reading, writing, or participating in community activities, creating a warm and comfortable life. With a heart filled with gratitude for life and the world, they too can have a true "home."
Therefore, a true "home" is not just a physical space but a spiritual place of belonging. Everyone's understanding of "home" is unique and evolves as we grow. Only through love can we understand each other's need for home and form a true "home." Wherever we are, we can create our own "home" through self-discovery, loving relationships, and heightened awareness. By reflecting on our definition of "home" and taking action, we can bring our abodes closer to our inner desires. Ultimately, building a true "home" must begin in our hearts.
44. True excellence begins with self-acceptance
46. Only true love can bring true fulfillment
