The path to Tranquility (spring)
33. Treating all things equally
Treating everything equally is a very important value. It means that we should respect every person, object, culture and opinion no matter what. This value system is based on respect and tolerance, which can make interpersonal relationships more harmonious and society more equal and just.
Treating others equally is a way to protect our own interests. This not only maintains the self-esteem of others, but also respects ourselves, and is the basis for caring for each other. By respecting each other's differences and appreciating each other's uniqueness, we can have equal opportunities and rights and avoid excessive conflicts in relationships.
Not judging good or bad is a mature attitude towards people and things. Most things cannot be simply categorized as good or bad. If we often judge whether things are good or bad, it means we are too subjective or biased. Such judgments are difficult to reach consensus on and will always spark controversy. If everyone sticks to their own opinions and doesn't consider the opinions of others, then actions will be unrealistic.
There is a basic solution: stop judging things, and instead observe the relationship between our own feelings and things, and focus on the impact of our own behavior on things. Accept things first, don't label them subjectively. Then stay curious, observe calmly, don't compare it with your memory too early, and avoid making judgments too quickly. Because things have just begun and will continue for some time, our premature intervention will disrupt its development.
We should treat our emotions in the same way. Don't call the emotion sad or happy, but let it flow freely, feel everything it brings, and understand its meaning, so that we can truly enjoy life.
For example, it is raining coldly outside the window, and a person is curled up on the sofa alone, drinking a cup of hot coffee. Is this sad or happy? If we continue to observe, we will discover a wonderful spiritual phenomenon: the human mind not only has a variety of emotions, but also has a stable core. This core is rationality and consciousness, which is our true self.
Therefore, being able to view everything equally indicates that our consciousness is functioning well. We know that this means giving everything an equal chance, allowing them to develop freely and accepting what nature gives in return. The essence of equality is to respect the laws of nature and embrace the characteristics of all things, which of course includes everything about ourselves.
If we can tolerate everything, we will not use our own preferences as the standard for judging right and wrong, nor will we use subjective value standards to judge good and evil. When we look at things objectively, it becomes easier to differentiate between wants and needs. Then, when others meet our needs, we can be grateful and proactively give back to others, thus establishing a deep connection.
Treating everything equally is an important foundation for building a harmonious society and achieving a better life. Respecting each other's differences and embracing the characteristics of all things will make our life experience more colorful.
32. Allows emotions to flow naturally
34. Acceptance without hesitation
