The path to Tranquility (summer)
101. Perceive each other’s true needs in love
For emotional or spiritual things, we must feel them with our hearts. These
things cannot be accurately expressed in language and words, and any
description or explanation is not comprehensive and sufficient. Especially
when it comes to love, we need to combine rationality and sensibility to
deeply understand its true meaning.
Love has a powerful attraction, but its connotation is often beyond our understanding. We can be attracted by a person's beauty or talent, but what really makes our hearts move is often the intangible temperament and the feeling of spiritual compatibility with each other. Among the factors that trigger love, the most important are those indescribable things.
If we only focus on external conditions, what we feel is just a desire, not true love. External conditions are easier to observe and therefore become the goal to pursue. But temperament is like a breeze, blowing through our hearts instantly, but it cannot be easily captured and described.
We cannot shape our temperament from appearance, so self-cultivation is very important. The cultivation of temperament cannot be achieved overnight, but is subtle in daily life and gradually formed in the process of growth. Therefore, when we appreciate each other's temperament and are willing to work together on the road of growth, the seeds of love can take root and sprout in our hearts. In this way, each other will also develop similar temperaments - the temperament of love.
The understanding of things such as love, freedom and happiness cannot only rely on rational thinking, but also requires constant practice and feelings to discover and understand the laws. When we become active participants in life, we have the ability to build a bridge between the material world and the spiritual world, allowing each other's consciousness to echo and achieve a deeper connection.
By experiencing the physical world, we can connect with each other's spiritual world. This means that the feelings gained from imagination are illusory, and only personal experience can approach reality. We must gain true understanding through face-to-face contact. It can be seen that it is crucial to get real feelings. Only by honestly communicating our feelings and thoughts can we empathize with others, perceive each other's true needs, and the reality of the world.
In today's era of highly developed social media, we speak more frequently on virtual platforms, but emotional communication through physical objects has become superficial. We should learn to carefully understand the emotions and consciousness of people around us in the rapid flow of information. When we truly listen, feel and accept, we can find our own goals in the complex emotional world and deeply understand the meaning of life in true love.
Therefore, the exploration of the emotional and spiritual world is not only a relationship with others, but also a journey deep within and discovering the true self. During this journey, the practice of love and the pursuit of the value of life will greatly enhance our consciousness and make us become more spiritual beings.
100. Happiness and suffering are both guides to life
102. Gain wisdom again from experience
