The path to Tranquility (spring)
38. The objective definition of love
Love is the most sublime creation of life. It truly connects life together and forms an incredibly powerful force. Through this power, we can use existing resources to create a new world that is more suitable for survival.
Sometimes we think love is just an emotion, but it is just an effect of love. When we love each other, we feel free and happy. This feeling is the most important gain of love, making us realize the power of connection and intimacy.
Maybe we think love is a commitment, but this is just a phenomenon of love. Love is equal giving and receiving between two people, so in the eyes of others, such a relationship is like a commitment. From this phenomenon we can see that love can grow without commitment, and those relationships that require commitment to maintain are not true love. Love is not a passive obligation or responsibility, but a free and active choice.
Therefore, love is an action that can bring us positive emotions and a stable life. Such actions include respect, care, understanding, support and trust. Most importantly, it meets the spiritual needs of each other and enables both parties to achieve their life goals and values. This makes the feelings between each other deeper and more stable, and also reflects the role of love in real life.
With true love, there is no need to worry about whether it will be reciprocated because we give it willingly. If we give true love, we will naturally get it in return. This is just like rain, which unconditionally nourishes all kinds of plants, and the plants repay it by blooming and bearing fruit.
However, everything has a reason, and so does love. Rain clouds are full of water, and rain is just a release. We are also lucky, not only to have life, but also to have rich feelings and insights. Our giving is a way of giving back to nature, and we will continue to receive blessings from nature. Love allows us to enjoy the joy of being a giver and achieve the sublimation of life. From this we can see that love is not only giving, but also receiving.
Continuous acceptance is also the reason why love never runs dry. As long as we keep giving, love will flow like a spring. The purer and more complete the giving to each other is, the more you will gain. Receive, give, and receive more, this is the cycle of love. We are able to give because we have already received a lot, not because we are empty and tempting others to fill it.
Love can not only bring each other physical and mental harmony and a wonderful life experience, but also enhance each other's creativity. Many of the tools that make life easier were invented by caring people. Furthermore, love allows us to discover our ability to give, which is a great discovery about ourselves. With this discoverer's joy, we create many new things that are beneficial to life, thereby experiencing the satisfaction and joy of creators.
By loving one another, we build a deep and stable connection that gives each other greater strength. By raising our consciousness, love adds certainty to life and gives us confidence in the future. Life with love is the safest, so we no longer fear death.
In general, the objective definition of love is equal giving, where both parties are willing to meet the needs of the other party to the best of their ability. This definition is consistent with the meaning of life, because love not only protects life, but also gives us freedom and happiness. However, only by loving one another can we prove that our love is real.
37. Accepting the uncertainty of life
